Mirrors the structure all-distincto already uses internally: walk the
list, ensure each element is not equal to x via nafc, recurse on tail.
Useful as a constraint-style filter:
(membero x (list 1 2 3 4 5))
(not-membero x (list 2 4))
-> x in {1, 3, 5}
4 new tests, 382/382 cumulative.