Page helpers demo: defisland, map-in-children fix, _eval_slot ref evaluator

- Add page-helpers-demo page with defisland ~demo-client-runner (pure SX,
  zero JS files) showing spec functions running on both server and client
- Fix _aser_component children serialization: flatten list results from map
  instead of serialize(list) which wraps in parens creating ((div ...) ...)
  that re-parses as invalid function call. Fixed in adapter-async.sx spec
  and async_eval_ref.py
- Switch _eval_slot to use async_eval_ref.py when SX_USE_REF=1 (was
  hardcoded to async_eval.py)
- Add Island type support to async_eval_ref.py: import, SSR rendering,
  aser dispatch, thread-first, defisland in _ASER_FORMS
- Add server affinity check: components with :affinity :server expand
  even when _expand_components is False
- Add diagnostic _aser_stack context to EvalError messages
- New spec files: adapter-async.sx, page-helpers.sx, platform_js.py
- Bootstrappers: page-helpers module support, performance.now() timing
- 0-arity lambda event handler fix in adapter-dom.sx

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

shared/sx/pages.py

@@ -170,7 +170,11 @@ async def _eval_slot(expr: Any, env: dict, ctx: Any) -> str:
     Expands component calls (so IO in the body executes) but serializes
     the result as SX wire format, not HTML.
     """
-    from .async_eval import async_eval_slot_to_sx
+    import os
+    if os.environ.get("SX_USE_REF") == "1":
+        from .ref.async_eval_ref import async_eval_slot_to_sx
+    else:
+        from .async_eval import async_eval_slot_to_sx
     return await async_eval_slot_to_sx(expr, env, ctx)