reflective: third consumer — Smalltalk frame adopts env.sx — 847+322+427 tests green

lib/guest/reflective/env.sx — added refl-env-find-frame-with (returns
the scope where NAME is bound, or nil). Needed by consumers like
Smalltalk that mutate variables at the source frame rather than
shadowing at the current one. Also added refl-env-find-frame for
the canonical shape.

lib/smalltalk/eval.sx — new st-frame-cfg adapter for the kit.
st-lookup-local now delegates parent-walk to refl-env-find-frame-with
while preserving its Smalltalk-flavoured {:found :value :frame}
return shape (which is used to mutate at the binding's source
frame, not the current one).

lib/smalltalk/test.sh + compare.sh — load lib/guest/reflective/env.sx
before lib/smalltalk/eval.sx.

Three genuinely different wire shapes now share the parent-walk:
- Kernel: {:refl-tag :env :bindings :parent}      mutable bindings
- Tcl:    {:level :locals :parent}                 functional update
- Smalltalk: {:self :method-class :locals :parent  mutable bindings,
              :return-k :active-cell}              rich metadata

All three consumers' full test suites unchanged: Smalltalk 847/847,
Kernel 322/322, Tcl 427/427. The cfg adapter pattern (modelled after
lib/guest/match.sx) cleanly handles all three.

lib/guest/reflective/env.sx

@@ -42,6 +42,9 @@
 ;;   (refl-env-has?-with   CFG SCOPE NAME)
 ;;   (refl-env-lookup-with CFG SCOPE NAME)
 ;;   (refl-env-lookup-or-nil-with CFG SCOPE NAME)
+;;   (refl-env-find-frame-with CFG SCOPE NAME)
+;;     — returns the scope in the chain that contains NAME (or nil).
+;;       Consumers needing source-frame mutation use this.
 ;;
 ;;   (refl-canonical-cfg) — the default cfg, exposed so consumers
 ;;                          can compare or extend it.
@@ -131,6 +134,24 @@
       (:else
         (refl-env-lookup-or-nil-with cfg ((get cfg :parent-of) scope) name)))))
 
+;; Returns the SCOPE in the chain that contains NAME, or nil if no
+;; scope binds it. Consumers (e.g. Smalltalk) use this to mutate the
+;; binding at its source frame rather than introducing a new shadow
+;; binding at the current frame. Pairs with `refl-env-lookup-with`
+;; for callers that need both the value and the defining scope.
+
+(define refl-env-find-frame-with
+  (fn (cfg scope name)
+    (cond
+      ((nil? scope) nil)
+      ((not ((get cfg :env?) scope)) nil)
+      ((dict-has? ((get cfg :bindings-of) scope) name) scope)
+      (:else
+        (refl-env-find-frame-with cfg ((get cfg :parent-of) scope) name)))))
+
+(define refl-env-find-frame
+  (fn (env name) (refl-env-find-frame-with refl-canonical-cfg env name)))
+
 ;; ── Default canonical cfg ───────────────────────────────────────
 ;; Exposed so consumers can use it explicitly, compose with it, or
 ;; check adapter-correctness against the canonical implementation.